Francia Raisa, who donated a kidney to Selena Gomez, opens up about their fractured friendship and the wedding snub. Read on to hear her truth and how she feels about their relationship today.

Francia Raisa, the actress who famously donated a kidney to pop star Selena Gomez in 2017, has finally opened up about their strained friendship after being excluded from Selena’s high-profile wedding.

Francia Raisa, 37, best known for her role in How I Met Your Father, shocked the world when she selflessly gave Selena a kidney while the singer was battling lupus. Despite this monumental act of kindness, their relationship has been marked by years of silence, rumors, and unresolved tension.

Addressing the Rumors
In a recent interview, Raisa broke her silence, addressing long-standing rumors about her strained friendship with Gomez. She directly refuted claims that she was upset over Selena’s post-transplant lifestyle choices, such as smoking. Raisa firmly stated, “I’ve never said anything” about the rumors and emphasized that she has always respected Selena’s decisions.

Where Was Francia at Selena’s Wedding?
Adding fuel to the fire, Francia was notably absent from Selena Gomez’s wedding to music producer Benny Blanco. The star-studded guest list included celebrities like Taylor Swift, Zoe Saldaña, and Ed Sheeran, but Francia was nowhere to be found.

When asked about her exclusion, Raisa kept her response classy, saying in Spanish, “I know she’s getting married, and I’m very happy for her. She has a life, and she is already a billionaire. I’m grateful that I could do that for her,” referring to the kidney donation.
Why Did Francia Donate Her Kidney?

Raisa took the opportunity to reflect on her life-saving gesture. She explained that donating the kidney was simply an act of kindness, not something she expected to be acknowledged in return. “It’s a donation, and it’s something nice that I was able to do. I am grateful that I am alive, and I can say that I have saved a life,” Raisa shared.
The Smoking Rumors: What Francia Really Thinks

One of the biggest rumors surrounding their friendship was that Raisa became angry with Selena over her alleged smoking habits post-transplant. Raisa responded calmly, saying, “When that rumor came out that I had gotten angry, I wasn’t aware of those rumors. No one knows what’s going on, and neither she nor I are talking about it.” Raisa suggested that one day, the truth might come to light, but for now, she prefers to remain silent.

How Does Francia Feel About Selena Now?
It has been eight years since Francia made the life-changing kidney donation, but questions still remain about where their friendship stands. While Selena once praised Francia publicly, their connection seems to have faded into silence. Still, Francia’s message is clear: she gave the gift of life out of love, with no expectations in return.

Selena’s Wedding: Fans React to Her Big Day
Meanwhile, Selena Gomez has moved forward in her life, celebrating her wedding to Benny Blanco on September 27, 2025. The ceremony, held in a stunning garden setting, was an intimate affair shared on social media. Selena posted several pictures from the day, showing her and Benny sharing tender moments in their custom Ralph Lauren wedding outfits.

However, the wedding was not without drama. Benny Blanco’s extravagant Jacob & Co. diamond watch quickly became a topic of discussion online, with fans commenting on its immense sparkle. Some even joked that his watch might be more expensive than Selena’s ring.

Justin Bieber’s Controversial Post
As if the wedding wasn’t already making waves, Selena’s ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber reignited old drama with a post on Instagram. Sharing a moody song titled “I Do,” which many fans believed to be about Selena, Justin’s post sparked an outpouring of speculation and confusion. The timing of the post, on the day of Selena’s wedding, only intensified the buzz.

Fans quickly speculated whether the song’s lyrics, “Nobody gets to touch you, I do,” were a subtle message to Selena. Many took to the comments, pointing out the awkward timing of the post.
Some fans joked about Justin’s post, humorously warning him that his actions were giving people “free ammo” to roast him, while others simply expressed their surprise at the emotional undertones of the lyrics.