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Francia Raisa Speaks Out After Being Left Off Selena Gomez’s Wedding Guest List

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Francia Raisa, who donated a kidney to Selena Gomez, opens up about their fractured friendship and the wedding snub. Read on to hear her truth and how she feels about their relationship today.

Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa attend Billboard Women In Music at The Ray Dolby Ballroom at Hollywood & Highland Center on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images
Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa attend Billboard Women In Music at The Ray Dolby Ballroom at Hollywood & Highland Center on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images

Francia Raisa, the actress who famously donated a kidney to pop star Selena Gomez in 2017, has finally opened up about their strained friendship after being excluded from Selena’s high-profile wedding.

Francia Raisa attends as Selena Gomez hosts the Inaugural Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health on October 4, 2023, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Francia Raisa attends as Selena Gomez hosts the Inaugural Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health on October 4, 2023, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Francia Raisa, 37, best known for her role in How I Met Your Father, shocked the world when she selflessly gave Selena a kidney while the singer was battling lupus. Despite this monumental act of kindness, their relationship has been marked by years of silence, rumors, and unresolved tension.

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Francia Raisa at the Inaugural Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health at Nya Studios on October 4, 2023, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
Francia Raisa at the Inaugural Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health at Nya Studios on October 4, 2023, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Addressing the Rumors

In a recent interview, Raisa broke her silence, addressing long-standing rumors about her strained friendship with Gomez. She directly refuted claims that she was upset over Selena’s post-transplant lifestyle choices, such as smoking. Raisa firmly stated, “I’ve never said anything” about the rumors and emphasized that she has always respected Selena’s decisions.

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Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa are pictured looking at each other at the Billboard Women In Music event on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images
Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa are pictured looking at each other at the Billboard Women In Music event on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images

Where Was Francia at Selena’s Wedding?

Adding fuel to the fire, Francia was notably absent from Selena Gomez’s wedding to music producer Benny Blanco. The star-studded guest list included celebrities like Taylor Swift, Zoe Saldaña, and Ed Sheeran, but Francia was nowhere to be found.

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Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa are spotted at the Billboard Women In Music event on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images
Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa are spotted at the Billboard Women In Music event on November 30, 2017, in California | Source: Getty Images

When asked about her exclusion, Raisa kept her response classy, saying in Spanish, “I know she’s getting married, and I’m very happy for her. She has a life, and she is already a billionaire. I’m grateful that I could do that for her,” referring to the kidney donation.

Why Did Francia Donate Her Kidney?

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Francia Raisa and Selena Gomez attend the Unlikely Heroes’ 3rd Annual Awards Dinner and Gala at Sofitel Hotel on November 8, 2014, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Francia Raisa and Selena Gomez attend the Unlikely Heroes’ 3rd Annual Awards Dinner and Gala at Sofitel Hotel on November 8, 2014, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Raisa took the opportunity to reflect on her life-saving gesture. She explained that donating the kidney was simply an act of kindness, not something she expected to be acknowledged in return. “It’s a donation, and it’s something nice that I was able to do. I am grateful that I am alive, and I can say that I have saved a life,” Raisa shared.

The Smoking Rumors: What Francia Really Thinks

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A netizen's comment about Benny Blanco's watch, from a post dated September 28, 2025 | Source: Instagram/people
A netizen’s comment about Benny Blanco’s watch, from a post dated September 28, 2025 | Source: Instagram/people

One of the biggest rumors surrounding their friendship was that Raisa became angry with Selena over her alleged smoking habits post-transplant. Raisa responded calmly, saying, “When that rumor came out that I had gotten angry, I wasn’t aware of those rumors. No one knows what’s going on, and neither she nor I are talking about it.” Raisa suggested that one day, the truth might come to light, but for now, she prefers to remain silent.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez

How Does Francia Feel About Selena Now?

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It has been eight years since Francia made the life-changing kidney donation, but questions still remain about where their friendship stands. While Selena once praised Francia publicly, their connection seems to have faded into silence. Still, Francia’s message is clear: she gave the gift of life out of love, with no expectations in return.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez

Selena’s Wedding: Fans React to Her Big Day

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Meanwhile, Selena Gomez has moved forward in her life, celebrating her wedding to Benny Blanco on September 27, 2025. The ceremony, held in a stunning garden setting, was an intimate affair shared on social media. Selena posted several pictures from the day, showing her and Benny sharing tender moments in their custom Ralph Lauren wedding outfits.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez

However, the wedding was not without drama. Benny Blanco’s extravagant Jacob & Co. diamond watch quickly became a topic of discussion online, with fans commenting on its immense sparkle. Some even joked that his watch might be more expensive than Selena’s ring.

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Selena Gomez during a photo session for her wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez
Selena Gomez during a photo session for her wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez

Justin Bieber’s Controversial Post

As if the wedding wasn’t already making waves, Selena’s ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber reignited old drama with a post on Instagram. Sharing a moody song titled “I Do,” which many fans believed to be about Selena, Justin’s post sparked an outpouring of speculation and confusion. The timing of the post, on the day of Selena’s wedding, only intensified the buzz.

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Polaroids of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez
Polaroids of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco during a photo session for their wedding on September 27, 2025 | Source: Instagram/selenagomez

Fans quickly speculated whether the song’s lyrics, “Nobody gets to touch you, I do,” were a subtle message to Selena. Many took to the comments, pointing out the awkward timing of the post.

Some fans joked about Justin’s post, humorously warning him that his actions were giving people “free ammo” to roast him, while others simply expressed their surprise at the emotional undertones of the lyrics.

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