An inquest reveals how a 32-year-old mother, diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder, tragically took her own life after her GP failed to properly assess her condition. Learn about the family’s efforts to raise awareness and support mental health.
Inquest Reveals Misjudgment in the Tragic Death of Somerset Mother
The family of Amy Manning, a 32-year-old mother from Somerset, is seeking answers after the details of her tragic death were revealed in an inquest. Manning was found dead at her home on January 17, 2024, following what appeared to be a suicide, with key information coming to light during the investigation.
The Final Days: A Struggle with Mental Health
Amy Manning, a skilled hairdresser and loving mother of two, had been battling Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD), also known as borderline personality disorder. This condition, which involves difficulties regulating emotions and impulsive behavior, led to a decline in her mental health during the COVID-19 lockdown.
Her family stated that the lockdown caused significant emotional distress, which compounded her struggles. The inquest revealed that she had also used alcohol and cocaine prior to her death, which further impacted her mental well-being.
Manning’s partner, Sam Plumley, a police officer, described their relationship as difficult in the months before her death. He recalled her increasing alcohol consumption and worsening mental health. Despite these signs, Manning had been in communication with the Citizens’ Advice Bureau to address financial difficulties and was seen trying to cope with overwhelming stressors in her life.
The Doctor’s Misjudgment and Missed Opportunity
The inquest revealed that Manning had been in regular contact with her general practitioner, who recorded chronic suicidal thoughts in her medical records but judged that she was not actively suicidal. The GP’s assessment was based on the belief that Manning’s children were a reason for her to stay alive, overlooking the severity of her emotional distress.
Susan Hawker, a psychiatric nurse with the Somerset NHS Foundation Trust, testified that she was not concerned about Manning’s suicide risk. Hawker stated that Manning had been focused on her children and had not expressed a desire to harm herself during their conversations.
However, Manning’s partner, Sam Plumley, testified that he had exchanged messages with her the night before her death, and there was no indication that she was in immediate danger. Unfortunately, Plumley later discovered her in the bedroom, unresponsive and barricaded, leading to the devastating conclusion that Manning had taken her life.
Tributes and Family Fundraising for Suicide Prevention
The inquest also addressed concerns about money missing from Manning’s account, but Plumley denied taking any funds without her knowledge. He admitted to borrowing money occasionally, but always returned it as agreed.
Since Manning’s passing, her family has worked tirelessly to honor her memory and raise awareness about mental health and suicide prevention. They have raised over £3,600 ($4,880) for Suicide Prevention UK, an organization that relies on public donations and volunteers.
Family members have participated in several fundraising events, including the Jurassic Coast Ultra Half Challenge in May 2025, and a charity quiz night, raising more than £7,000 ($9,480) with Gift Aid. They plan to continue fundraising, including a 75-kilometer walk in Manning’s memory in 2025.
Remembering Amy Manning: A Legacy of Awareness and Change
Amy Manning’s untimely death has left a hole in her family’s hearts, but through their dedication to mental health awareness and suicide prevention, they are striving to turn their grief into action. They continue to support Suicide Prevention UK, hoping to save lives and provide help to those in need.
If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please reach out for help. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org for additional resources.
