A dad used child leashes for his 5-year-old quintuplets on a family outing. Critics blasted him—but a parenting expert says safety comes first.
Dad shamed online for using leashes—here’s the bigger picture
Raising one curious 5-year-old in public can be tough. Raising five the same age? That’s a whole different challenge.
Jordan Driskell, a 31-year-old father of quintuplets, shared a video from a family trip to the aquarium that went viral—because his kids were wearing child safety harnesses (leashes).
Why he chose leashes instead of a big stroller
The family used to rely on a 6-seat stroller, but it quickly became a headache: the kids felt cramped, it was bulky, and it slowed everyone down.
With harnesses, the kids can walk, explore, and stay safe—and Dad can keep all five within sight in busy places.
The backlash was loud—and personal
The video racked up millions of views and a flood of harsh comments:
“Kids aren’t animals—don’t leash them.”
“If you can’t handle it, don’t have so many kids.”
“Just train them better.”
What a parenting expert says
Dr. Deborah Gilboa, a parenting and adolescent development expert, doesn’t see harnesses as harmful or demeaning. Her take:
A leash won’t make kids feel like animals.
If the alternative is staying home, harnesses can be a smart tool for safety.
They can be helpful for younger kids or neurodiverse children in crowded spaces.
For neurotypical kids, aim to phase out by around 8–9 years old as listening and safety skills improve.
Safety vs. judgment
Public parenting often attracts opinions. But safety tools like harnesses exist for a reason: to keep kids close in busy, high-risk environments. Parents know their children and their needs best.
Quick takeaways
Five 5-year-olds in crowds = real safety concerns.
Harnesses let kids walk and explore without getting lost.
Experts say they’re useful tools—not a long-term crutch.
Parents deserve grace, not online shaming.
What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments and keep the conversation respectful.
